- Always trust your instinct because that’s your true angel guiding you. Sometimes they guide you from unnecessary heart break along the line. What we have to do is give it a try and forget about what the heart is saying and consider what the mind want us to do.
- Never forgive a cheating partner because they will never stop cheating. Sometimes we are quick to forgive what we have been through in a relationship but the truth is you shouldn’t also forget the situation we were in . The hardship we went through .It is good to forgive but the things is we should also have a second thought about the person we are dealing with to avoid unnecessary heart break again.
- Don’t reveal your full potential to whoever you are dating, it gives them the opportunity to easily use and dumb you real quick. It is true keeping a lot secret prevent the growth of a healthy relationship but do remember that not all things are suppose to be shared in a relationship not even to the closer person you trust because you can not read human mind and you don’t when they are going to use those secrets against you.
- Don’t over show someone when you truly love them, they will surely abuse it. Remember the weakest person in a relationship is someone that is in love more, while the strongest is someone that is in love less. This doesn’t mean that you should keep your affection from your partner but be careful how you over show how much you love them. Showing someone how much they mean to you sometimes gives them bad signal . It makes them in a way take you for a fool because they know that no matter the wrong thing they will do or say to you , you will always be soft and beg them back into your life.
- Let your NO be NO. It’s one of those method of giving boundaries. It is easy to say “ I love you” but takes time to prove, anybody that start using the I love you slogan after just a single date is a joker.
A failed relationship is far less cheaper and better than a failed marriage. So don’t be sad.
If they are not what you want in the beginning, then move on and don’t fall in love with them.
Never procrastinate on your plan or goals because of a relationship. Learn to love yourself to the extent that you don’t need to look for a love from others. Avoid being too emotional dependent. These are some of the lessons you learned after a failed relationship.
